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Happy's Ms. to Mrs. Bridal Shower Bootcamp

I got invited to Happy Andrada's Bridal Shower Bootcamp. Naturally, any event that has something to do with being a bride-to-be gets me super excited. The timing is just perfect 'coz I'm actually checking out different wedding gown designers online for options. 
So just to give you a quick background on Happy, she's a fashion designer and make up artist who is set to tie the knot this November! She took up fashion courses at Central Saint martins in London and has been making a name for herself in the fashion industry. Currently, her wedding collection is doing well both here and abroad. She won two major awards in the 3rd Asian Weddings and Arts Competition in Hong Kong and Miami Fashion Week International Emerging Designer. You can check out her designs in this beautifully curated website, Happy Andrada Wedding. Surprisingly, her wedding gown packages are not that expensive so I might actually consider it. 
During the event, Happy showcased her Cuban Chic Collection…
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